If I think someone is about to identify me, can I choose to reveal myself to prevent them from getting the bonus Situation Card?

This is up to you. Sure, you can do this. But won’t you be sorry if the person doesn’t actually know who you are? Often times, people are making a 50/50 guess at best.

Also, you’ll need to shout out something like, “I’m going to self-identify!” Be sure you do this before he actually says, “I know my neighbor!”